«When we hate our enemies, we are giving them power over us: power over our sleep, our appetites, our blood pressure, our health, and our happiness. Our enemies would dance with joy if only they knew how they were worrying us, lacerating us, and getting even with us! Our hate is not hurting them at all, but our hate is turning our own days and nights into a hellish turmoil.»
— Dale Carnegie
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Amen to that!!!
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You spoke the ultimate truth here. I stay drama free don’t let anything rent space for mind overload. Let your yes be yes and your no absolutely no, be kind to all.
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Never give up the power!
Never ever !
This is so true. I use to tell someone very close to me, to stop devoting so much time thinking about someone they do not wish to think about. Such a waste of energy…. Great post!
Yup … can be easier said than done !
I couldn’t agree more. All the energy wasted on ‘hating’ your enemy, while that person goes on with their life, is just ridiculous. I personally had to stop wasting time and energy hating my enemy when I realized I was missing my own blessings.
Yup 😀
Reblogged this on Through My Eyes and commented:
Definitely something to think about. Love, don’t hate. And if you find it hard to love, simply ‘ignore’… because sometimes, ignorance is bliss.
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I try to explain this yo my significant other this and he simply just doesnt understand it
LOL … it’s counter-intuitive for some I guess !
Yes. That’s why keep calm, normal and stay happy at least in front of them. though you are angry, but if you pretend to be happy then their “days and nights [turn] into a hellish turmoil.”
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Very well said…and oh, so true!!!
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Absolutely
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Hatred is a slow action poison, paralyzing our nerve system and petrifying our bodies
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Never let them know you are affected in any way! That’s what returns power to you.
Good point 😀
It’s the truth, that’s why we should forgive them for their sin. Turn the other cheek? It will brighten your day 🙂
True 😀
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So true.
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