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Passive Aggressive – Stupid Is As Stupid Does

WARNING – CREATIVE WRITING AHEAD

“Speak the truth” – Jordan Peterson.

That’s what I’m doing right here. Exercising my right to speak freely as what I currently see as truth.

I may look stupid to you. I may write stupid stuff sometimes. I may not be a great artist, or a great writer, or a great photographer, or that great at anything. I may not be in the same tribe as you, or idolize the same gods. I may not be the cookie cutter blog you’d prefer me to be. I may not be as intelligent as you.

In fact I’m pretty average and ordinary by all accounts, nothing special. I just do my best, and hope for the best, most of the time.

I have done my research on passive-aggression. I know what your motives are and what your narrative is. I know that you deserve my pity more than my respect. I know the counter measures and moves – I have been doing this for a while, 57000 comments on this blog at last count, so I’m not exactly short-in-the-tooth by now.

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So please kindly stop leaving passive-aggressive comments, or trying passive-aggressive schemes on me – You’re wasting your time, and making yourself look pathetic in the process.

It’s transparent to me by now – someone broke the rules of fight club and showed me “the matrix”, might have even been me that did it.

The silver lining – I never end up short of something to blog about, so thanks for that at least. Also makes me laugh, so double whammy.

But – Why oh why, would you prefer to argue when we could have been friends – I’m perplexed at the lengths people will go spread their misery onto others – it beggars belief, the lengths their ego will go to ensure they feel they’re right, holier than thou, ideologically superior or have “won” the argument, even if it means completely deluding themselves, and destroying a potential friendship in the process.

“Stupid is as stupid does” – Forrest Gump

I guess.

If I have the time, and the skill, I try and help other people who’re honourable and respectful. I’ve lost count of the number of reblogs, guest bloggers and shares I’ve done over the years – bloggers helping bloggers, helping each other – you know solidarity. Not to mention that at least half of the 57000 comments are my replies to others.

At the end of the day – if you have no respect for me, you’re not worthy of my time.

Which reminds me of a quote I saw the other day, I’ll post that later.

Hope you are safe and stays that way.

Cheers

Don Charisma

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“If you have good thoughts, they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.” – Roald Dahl

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Quote of the day …

“If you have good thoughts, they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.”

 

– Roald Dahl

 
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Don Charisma

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“Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them.” – Marcus Aurelius

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Quote of the day …

“Dwell on the beauty of life. Watch the stars, and see yourself running with them.”

 

– Marcus Aurelius

 
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Don Charisma

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“Worrying doesn’t stop the bad stuff from happening. It just stops you from enjoying the good stuff.” – Karen Salmansohn

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Quote of the day …

“Worrying doesn’t stop the bad stuff from happening. It just stops you from enjoying the good stuff.”

 

– Karen Salmansohn

 
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Don Charisma

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“Rule number one is don’t sweat the small stuff. Rule number two is it’s all small stuff.” – Robert Eliot

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Quote of the day …

“Rule number one is don’t sweat the small stuff. Rule number two is it’s all small stuff.”

 

– Robert Eliot

 
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Don Charisma

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Quote of the day …

“Wherever you go, no matter what the weather, always bring your own sunshine.”

 

Anthony J. D’Angelo

 

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“The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.” – Jimmy Johnson

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Quote of the day …

“The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.”

 

Jimmy Johnson

 

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“Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.” – Francesca Reigler

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“Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.”

 

Francesca Reigler

 

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“Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow.” – Helen Keller

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“Keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see a shadow.”

 

Helen Keller

 

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South African Flag Added To My Sidebar

I’m proud of my own flag – I assume others are too.

A kind commenter reminded me the South African flag is missing from my sidebar, as I have nearly 9000 page views from South Africans.

You should definitely visit her site, there’s some beautiful photography – a gem amongst blogs :

Kavitha @ Sunshiny SA Site – Kavita Ramlal, Proudly South African – https://sunshinysasite.wordpress.com/about-kavita/

Lastly – welcome and hello to all my South African readers, best wishes to you all. Thankyou for reading and visiting my blog.

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