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Loss for society, win for men? Men are saying NOPE to the institution of marriage at historic rates. (Better Bachelor)

I’ve been a student of identity politics for some time now, and one avenue of study has been the MRAs and MGTOWs – you know – the male perspective. The female perspective is in the mainstream and has been for decades, so is more accessible, and I already knew/know that side inside-out.

I should clarify, I’m not a MRA (I’m not an activist), MGTOW (I have a partner currently) or a feminist (I’m male, so that’d be humanist, if an ‘ist was in play). Roughly speaking I’m an egalitarian, and I believe in equality of opportunity (not outcome).

Joker aka The Better Bachelor came up during my travels studying politics. I found his perspectives and experiences, similar to that of a lot of my male friends (and some female friends actually) – you know “the common man/woman”, ie the majority viewpoint.

I also have a male friend who got married recently – which he did I hope with his eyes open. I do sincerely hope that it works out for him, and his wife. People should be able to marry if they want to.

As for me, my own experiences – “not good”. So unlikely I’ll be tying the knot again, but never say never.

My two pence/cents/lira/sheckles – a not unsurprising outcome of decades of identity politics in the relationship, home, work and government, you know – “institutionalised/ indoctrinated/ everywhere”. I do feel most sorry for the children who will grow up without a stable home (and both parents), and the individual adults who’ll have been robbed of traditional family structures, via divisive doctrines, that only serve to separate rather than bring us together.

My inner cynic thinks – Seems maybe it’s the men who don’t need (or want) the bicycle, in the end. Or someone broke the rules of fight club, probably JP or Dave Rubin.

Anyway – Joker says it much better than me, so this video from another diverse voice :

“Better Bachelor is a channel for open minded men (and women if so inclined) to talk about current events, news, opinions, humor and ways to better yourself and find happiness and understanding in today’s society. This is an open forum where comments, talking points, concerns and discussion about topics are encouraged. Most content is focused towards single men’s issues but may be applicable to others. I focus on viewing many issues from multiple or under represented angles.”

Source – YouTube – Better Bachelor (Joker) (Channel = 13M views as of today) / Image source – PayPal (Fair use)


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6 thoughts on “Loss for society, win for men? Men are saying NOPE to the institution of marriage at historic rates. (Better Bachelor)

  1. Yes the kids lose, and you can find the stats on the impact of all this on them very easily, even if it is not politically correct.

    California does not publish their divorce stats anymore and while I am not positive, I believe that it is because it is closer to 70%.

    The average marriage lasts around seven years now (and think of all the people that have been married 50 years or more skew those numbers).

    And just because people stay married, doesn’t mean that the marriage is “good” that’s a pretty low bar if it is.

    I would say it is a very small percentage that are happy.

    I suspect that 2020 will make some marriages stronger/better and will hasten the destruction of others.

    1. Very interesting, keep the comments coming – helpful 🙂

      There’s a movie called “The Seven Year Itch”, black and white, and I had noticed relationships in my own life, that seemed to correlate.

      And yes people being locked up together, will hasten divorce rates I think. There will be a few that grow stronger.

  2. The inertia has been in favor of marriage, but I believe now it is against it and it will be almost impossible to reverse. Incentives and disincentives matter.

    Every man that gets divorced once believe that woman was his soul mate, the one, and that he was different than other men.

    1. Hear ya, and you said it pretty much as it is.

      Cynically speaking – we’re interchangeable, one man is just as good a partner as another, women have plenty of choice.

      Less cynically speaking – If one’s an egalitarian, and this is allowed in the opposite direction (no double standard) – then one woman is just as good as partner as any another. So fill your boots, (but with your eyes open of course to the potential pitfalls.)

      Men knowing of how the system works, and know it continues to get more skewed, are probably just abandoning the whole concept of marriage, through coming out of ignorance. I don’t know the publication he’s reading above, but it sounds about right – I’m unsurprised.

      In a way it’s quite liberating for men.

      Certainly “The Red Pill” by Cassie Jay was fascinating to watch, and she also put all of the interviews on YouTube for free. And don’t whatever you do watch Terrence Popp, that’ll rot your brain for sure – they proper pissed him off.

      Not sure it’s the outcome women wanted though, especially those who wanted to raise a family (which I think is the majority). If 50% of marriages are succeeding then there are a lot of good women out there – so there are some positives here.

      Personally I just ended up getting a whole lot more picky, and happier “living in sin”.

      Kids, and therefore the future generation, I think end up those who will lose out most, -I’ve seen it with my own eyes, many kids without dads, having difficulties. Kids are better off with both parents and a stable home and family, which used to the exception rather than the rule.

      These are not problems I have any power to fix, so all I can do is raise awareness, and point to some of the underlying causes. And do my best in my little corner of the world to make it better.



    1. Thanks. He’s quite an interesting guy, watched quite a few of his videos which pop up from time to time.

      He’s currently refurbishing some kind of vehicle to live in, save money and travel.

      Hope you are well, and long time no hear !

      Stay safe 🙂



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